The best advice I've ever received and given is "life moves on." Something little at one point may seem like the end of the world but you later realize that you're still living your life.
Three years ago when my best friend Rachel moved to Massachusetts I thought I was going to die without her. We did everything together. We used to spend every single day together. Her parents and brothers were my second family, I fought with them just like she did. My mom used to even ground her. So the day her parents told me they were moving I was heart broken but we realized that we had three weeks left together. The first week i spent sulking and not talking to her then my mom told me life moves one, and I realized this isn't the end.
We now both have our separate lives, new friends, new schools but every time we talk it's like we have been in the same town for the last three years. two years ago when she came for a visit I saw how both of our lives moved on on but yet stayed the same.
That is a good lesson to learn, Oksana. Life does move on, sometimes even when we don't want it to move ahead. It is so important to enjoy each moment, appreciate each day, and live to the fullest in every endeavor.
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